CP Abroad With Shannon Bresnahan

On the outside, I look like a pretty confident person, but like everyone else, I have my moments of doubt. Over the past few years, those moments had been growing, leaving me feeling increasingly uncertain about myself. Outside of work, I’ve never felt confident enough to grab dinner or a drink alone, let alone travel to another country solo. And at work, I tend to be more curious in meetings and listen to everyone else’s perspectives without always giving my own.

As a single woman, I lived in Dublin alone for the month and traveled by myself for two out of my five weekends abroad. Traveling solo in other countries pushed me into a new level of confidence I hadn’t tapped into before. I was, of course, having meals on my own and meeting new people, but I was also doing day trips and excursions alone, hoping to squeeze in as much as I could in a short amount of time. As I explored new experiences and built confidence, my curiosity about the world grew, and I wanted to play an active role in it rather than simply observing from the sidelines.

I could start to see a shift in my confidence at work even while I was still in Dublin. I was speaking up more in meetings and was less uncertain about my opinions. I’ve always been encouraged to share my thoughts and opinions at work, but I often held back, worried that someone might disagree or see my input as irrelevant. Once I started speaking up more, I realized just how wrong I was— my voice truly does matter.

Be Confident in the Gray

As a Brand Supervisor, my work life is very organized with timelines and project plans guiding every client activity. In my personal life, I live more in the gray and fully embraced this on my solo trips. Occasionally I booked some tours but overall, I didn’t plan what museums or attractions I would see and I was able to be fully in the moment and absorb all the sights around me.

I’ve come to appreciate the excitement of embracing the gray areas, and I now want to bring that mindset into my work. Timelines will always be essential, but not having every detail doesn’t mean a project will fall apart. The unknown keeps you adaptable, ready to expect the unexpected and handle whatever comes your way.

I would have traveled without CP Abroad, but having the opportunity to fuse work and play taught me a lot about myself and how I want to work with my colleagues and clients moving forward. This is such a unique program and I can’t thank CP enough for the chance to live in Dublin for a month. I loved every moment and can’t wait to go back.